Popular Alternatives For Couples With Infertility

November 27, 2009 by  
Filed under Pregnancy

Having children can be a real trial, however, for the couple who truly wants to have children and cannot, it can be even more heartbreaking. Today, there are many hopeful signs for couples who want to be parents but are struggling with infertility. In this article we are going to describe 4 of the most popular and successful options that are available for couples with infertility.

In Vitro Fertilization is one of the best known options for infertility. Adoption is a choice, but many couples want to have a child that has the genetic ties to them. In other words, their own “flesh and blood.” While this is a costly option, it is becoming much more widespread and successful. The process of In Vitro Fertilization involves having the woman’s eggs where eggs are fertilized by sperm outside the body in a laboratory dish then implanted into the mother. These fertilized eggs are most often placed into the womb of the natural mother. A normal length of pregnancy takes place, but the hurdles of conception are cleared in this way.

A second option is to have a traditional surrogate pregnancy. In traditional surrogacy, a surrogate mother would be chosen because the wife could not become pregnant. Then the egg of the surrogate would be fertilized by the sperm of the husband / father. In this case the baby is genetically related to the birth mother or surrogate and the father. This is often the case for couples who want to have a child, but want to turn to close family or friends for help. One word of caution is related to the laws of the state concerning surrogacy rights, in case the surrogate has a change of heart in regards to keeping the baby.

A third option which is becoming very popular is called gestational surrogacy. In surrogacy, the birth mother shares no genetic link with the baby. Gestational surrogacy tends to be very expensive. The reason for this is that the couple has to pay the surrogate mother for her services, pay for In Vitro Fertilization (from the couple), pay the surrogate mother for her expenses for 9 months, and pay for the expenses related to birth. In spite of the expense, many couples actually prefer this method. One reason is that the parents know that the child will have the genetic characteristics of both the mother and the father. As the genetic parents, they also have more legal rights than in a traditional surrogacy.

And, of course, fertility drugs are also an option. However, fertility drugs should be a last option. Fertility drugs are often used during In Vitro Fertilization, so it is best to save this option until a fertility doctor suggests it. A couple should never resort to this method unless they have been actively trying to have children for at least a year. If there have been no results after a year then the couple should visit a fertility clinic and seek a doctor’s advice. A good fertility doctor will examine both the husband and the wife for potential issues. He or she will also be able to outline the risks associated with the different medications and help the couple decide which type is best for their individual situation. Some fertility drugs are taken orally and some are injected.

There is much hope and great technological help for couples today who may be experiencing infertility. Doctors are much better trained and equipped today than they were a generation ago to help with this issue. There also other options besides these four popular choices of In Vitro Fertilization, Traditional Surrogacy, Gestational Surrogacy, and Fertility Drugs. There are also homeopathic methods which seem to have helped many people, as well as many other medical choices. Perhaps the best advice is to do thorough research, find good fertility doctors, clinics, and agencies, and, of course, be patient.

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